Psychotherapy or ‘the talking cure’ is still the most effective treatment for difficulties affecting quality of life.
If you are trying to make sense of repeated patterns, overwhelming feelings and difficult relationships, I will provide you space to explore what is happening. These difficulties may include feeling anxious, flat or low in mood, isolating yourself, feeling out of character, restrictive eating, self-harming, over exercise, drinking alcohol excessively and using illicit substances. If you have tried medications or don't want to try medications, talking therapy is likely to help.
My approach is focused on listening; allowing you to speak and be heard.
If you have ever felt that your symptoms and behaviours are becoming problematic and you would like understand them, please read on and see if anything seems familiar.
Many current treatments are skills-based and focus on tackling symptoms, often utilisng tools or techniques to combat distress. These might include: low mood; poor sleep; anxiety; over thinking; excessive alcohol or drug use, self harm; overhwelming; negative or complusive thoughts.
These skills can be helpful in the short term but often have limited effect in addressing the cause. Sometimes these tools can interfere with exploring and understanding who you are and why these symptoms occur.
If this sounds familiar, if you have attempted to address and overcome your problems with little sucess, I can help. These symptoms are often secondary to the difficulties which cause them and I will provide space to examine these. This treatment is focused of creating space to understand these symtoms; in what way do they affect you and why do they keep happening. By sitting alongside you without judgement my aim is to assist you, to give you clarity on your difficulties and help you overcome them.
Typically we will begin with a number of introductory sessions to help us get to know each other. Following these, we explore a joint understanding of your difficulties and develop an approach for future sessions.
Anxiety is often overwhelming and consuming, it can come in many guises but frequently causes people to become isolated. People can experience physical symptoms caused by anxiety, overwhelming fears and intrusive thoughts which hinder the ability to think clearly.
Whether it is panic attacks, specific anxiety or generalised anxiety, talki
Anxiety is often overwhelming and consuming, it can come in many guises but frequently causes people to become isolated. People can experience physical symptoms caused by anxiety, overwhelming fears and intrusive thoughts which hinder the ability to think clearly.
Whether it is panic attacks, specific anxiety or generalised anxiety, talking about it and understanding how it affects you will help to reduce the effect it has on you.
It is often under diagnosed and hard to understand. Individuals may experience difficulties in maintaining relationships and have chaotic relationships, pervasive low mood and/or hopelessness, reckless behaviour, self-harm, an instability in their sense of self. People with personality disorder commonly encounter judgement and hostility
It is often under diagnosed and hard to understand. Individuals may experience difficulties in maintaining relationships and have chaotic relationships, pervasive low mood and/or hopelessness, reckless behaviour, self-harm, an instability in their sense of self. People with personality disorder commonly encounter judgement and hostility from healthcare providers.
However, clients who attend talking therapy experience improvement in quality of life and stability.
Constantly arguing? Misunderstanding each other? Lack of intimacy or sex?
All of these are common within relationships, yet all of them benefit from talking therapy. Day to day pressures, financial concerns, children, life changes, illness are just a few things that impact on our relationships. All these things make it hard to fully unde
Constantly arguing? Misunderstanding each other? Lack of intimacy or sex?
All of these are common within relationships, yet all of them benefit from talking therapy. Day to day pressures, financial concerns, children, life changes, illness are just a few things that impact on our relationships. All these things make it hard to fully understand why our partner may be responding in the way the are, or understand why things cannot be the way they used to.
Family relationships are complex and can frequently fall into dysfunctional communication patterns. This often occurs through changes of role or varying needs of different family members. Families benefit from space to express these miscommunications in a calm and neutral setting. This allows difficulties to be heard and expressed in a different manner to usual.
Many people experience symptoms associated with painful and traumatic circumstances. Problematic behaviours or feelings may linger following a traumatic event or period in your life. Anxiety, fear, hopelessness, low mood and reduced quality of life could be something that you notice. I provide time and space to understand some of these difficult feelings and behaviours.
Change of role and expectations of oneself in day to day life can cause difficult feelings. Becoming a parent, children moving out, retirement, relationship changes, these are just examples of circumstances which cause a huge impact on the way we feel.
At times people experience feelings of shame, regret and bitterness. These can comm
Change of role and expectations of oneself in day to day life can cause difficult feelings. Becoming a parent, children moving out, retirement, relationship changes, these are just examples of circumstances which cause a huge impact on the way we feel.
At times people experience feelings of shame, regret and bitterness. These can commonly result in reduced functioning and enjoyment of life, difficulties with relationships and work.
"Since true listening involves a setting aside of the self, it also temporarily involves a total acceptance of the other. Sensing this acceptance, the speaker will feel less and less vulnerable, and more and more inclined to open up the inner recesses of his or her mind to the listener. As this happens, speaker and listener begin to appreciate each other more and more, and the dance of love is begun again."
M. Scott Peck
I am a Registered Mental Health Nurse with over fifteen years experience in the NHS in the UK and the public health service in Australia. My work in the NHS ranged from working in acute adult mental health wards, forensic hospitals and then as a senior nurse in both older adult and adult community mental health teams. In Australia I worked in a community mental health team and a specialist personality disorder service. I have worked extensively with complex problems and difficulties. This has included individual, group and family therapy, training and consultation, GP clinics and supervision of junior nurses. My experince as a mental health nurse sets me aside from counsellors, I have supported people with both acute and chronic conditions, within their own homes, hospitals, prisons, community clinics. I have seen and heard people in their hardest and darkest moments, this journey constantly supports the way I work.
I trained with Relate and provide couples counselling and counselling who have difficulties in relationships.
I have supported and treated people who experience difficulties such as anxiety, drepression, obsessive disorders, trauma, borderline personality disorder, bi-polar, adjustment disorder, postnatal psychosis and depression, addiction, psychosis, depression, anxiety and eating disorders.
Throughout my career, I have used and trained in various modalities of treatment such as Family Behavioural Therapy (FBT), Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Solution Focused Therapy (SFT), Mentalization-Based Therapy (MBT), Systemic therapy and have a person -centered approach.
I am passionate about my work and the challenge that it presents personally, this drives me to be the best practitioner I can be. I aim to be honest and transparent in my approach. Sessions can be filled with tears and laughter, clarity and confusion, they can feel confronting and challenging. I hope to sit beside you in your journey in understanding and overcoming your difficulties.
Nicole is really approachable and provided a safe space for me to be heard. Her non-judgemental approach helped me to open up and face difficult issues in my past. At times the sessions were challenging but Nicole's calm temperament and good humour ensured that I have been able to leave with positivity and hope. I was initially scared of attending therapy as, I thought it was, 'other people', Nicole's manner and style made me feel at ease.
Nicole's approach has helped me to see how my overwhelming feelings and thoughts follow a pattern. Now that I am aware of them I can cope with them. This was hard to talk about but Nicole supported me in talking about them.
Nicole has helped me to understand my anxiety and OCD, she does not judge and seems to be calm even when I am panicking. Talking with Nicole has helped me manage the things I was finding difficult with more confidence.
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I cover Worcestershire, Gloucestershire and Warwickshire and provide home visits for referred clients
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